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She calls it “ On Laura’s lap” ... the end to the best birthday weekend @laurabrown99

Always the Unicorn, because normal is boring. On my birthday I want to celebrate those closest to me, my family and my friends. And say thank you for putting up with my crazy all over the place disorganized personality. I’m so oblivious most of the time but am also the worst self critic. I am so lucky to have people who want to love me despite all of that.

My way of mothering is a non traditional way. I believe in “gentle and organic “ methods when it comes to raising my children. I co sleep, I breastfeed them for a long time, I don’t believe in sticking to schedules, in timed feedings, or creating artificial routines. I know how crazy this seems to people who do not believe in co sleeping and love structure. I also know that for a lot of families the opposite works and some working parents have to have routines and schedules because it’s the only way for them. For us it was something that worked, and felt natural. When I left the hospital I was told By nurses and staff that had to feed my son every 3 hours. At home I was faced with situations when he was hungry in 2 hours or 2.5 hours or even 1 hour ( during a growth spurt ) and that was natural for him, that was his body telling him he needed to feed. I walked around the house stressed, pulling my hair out trying to calm my crying baby while he wailed wanting to feed, yet because I was told to feed him every 3 hours, I thought I had to do that for his own good.. I was lucky I met an incredible Lactation consultant who helped me with breastfeeding (which was so hard at first and so emotional and painful) and who gave me the best advice, one I now tell every new mama I meet. She told me to listen to my heart, to listen to my gut and do what I feel is right for my baby. She said to stop listening to friends, neighbors, family members and websites. Every child is different, and as a Mom I know what is best for my baby. The moment that truth sunk in, I felt the weight has been lifted off my shoulders and I felt 1000 times better. I fed my baby when he showed me signs that he was hungry, I put him Down when he felt tired, I listened to him and let him guide me, and that worked for us. The reason I’m sharing this, is because with my second baby it’s very different. He takes 20 minute naps and he doesn’t like to be bothered or touched while he’s sleeping, so his sleep is interrupted in the night and with 20 minute naps during the day he really wasn’t getting the rest was irritable and tired. So I decided to do something I swore off- sleep train him. We have been

One is crying, the other one is screaming: “Pick me up!!” .. What to do, when they both want your attention and don’t want to be held together? I hold them both but they push each other out of the way in total chaos... anyone else dealing with this ? @thetot

If you need me, You can find me in the hammock..

Very Pink Vibes... @loveshackfancy @thetot

The @thetot Team taking over Hamptons! ( and eating lots of lobster rolls while we are at it) Thankful for these incredible hardworking females.

Our Pop Up in the Hamptons is officially launched! Come check us out in East Hampton if you are in the area. Thank you to our super cool partners @ever.after.shop And a huge thank you to our Hot Mama Hosts @claire_fivestory @leandramcohen @vanessatraina

Zesty

Red white and blue

Hello Hamptons ! See you all tomorrow. @thetot @ever.after.shop

Moments I live for...

Taking all my style inspo from this one this holiday weekend. @thetot #permanentmood

SWIPE to see the before and after of our new amazing @thetot Pop Up with @ever.after.shop in East Hampton!! I am SO proud of our SuperStar team for getting it up in 48 hours!!! We can’t wait to see you there. Join us through July 29 at 51 Newtown Lane, East Hamton NY. #startuplife

Forgot to mention that I got this dress for $100 in a vintage shop

That time I had to PUMP in the toilet... Who feels me? @thetot #normalizebreastfeeding

Summer in pastels

Fresh cut + Color ! Thanks @hairbycharlie

Happy Birthday my dear @emiliawickstead you make everything sunshine and roses! ( and thanks to Daniel for squatting in this photo to help me not look so short)

106 degrees in TX

She’s saying that her face looks too wrinkly this close up.. Miss my Baba! Should have never let her go home!!

Just me and our newest intern at @thetot on an annual European buying trip.. #shesarockstar

Airport photo! ( what’s not pictured is the excessive amount of bags accompanying us )

Good bye Florence..

My tiny date at dinner. @thetot

This is my happy place.. @thetot #normalizebreastfeeding

Florentine nights with my love @edgardoprivate @aquazzura

Just me and my tiny postpartum hairs..

Favourite summer dress @rosie_assoulin

Tuscan Summer

Reading the news over the last few days breaks my heart as a mother, and makes me want to squeeze my children just a little harder. I cannot imagine being forcefully separated from them, not even for a second. Donate to @aclu_nationwide @raicestexas or Act Blue Charities ( who has a link for donating to 8 different charities ) #myheartaches

Greece you stole my heart! Traveling with a little tribe is no joke and many places we go are SO not kid friendly or even borderline rude when you bring children out with you .. We take our kids everywhere with us because we want them to experience life the way we do and share memories with them always.. Sometime we get dirty looks for having children in a restaurant with us or for BF( with a cover on).. everyone we encountered in Greece has been so warm, so helpful and welcoming! I will definitely be coming back for more.. ( especially that delicious food I can’t get out of my head ) @thetot